Christmas coming...
As always at this time of the year, food is plentiful here, not too much as it can be spread out over the holidays, but definitely more than usual. There are two boxes waiting to be delivered upstate, and there are more cookies around than we can eat at the moment. They are wrapped so can wait.
Cards have arrived, more than last year. Fortunately the card sending tradition here cannot stop, and almost everyone has been covered. Still, each day's mail can arrive with a surprise or a news update.
Deciding on tips to those who provide services here is the usual source of angst. Too little, too much, what a waste of mental energy. It is unavoidable and should not be an issue. The goal is to reward well but not ostentatiously. Why should giving be difficult.
It is not that way with charities, but the research needed to decide is daunting. That leads to fallbacks like MSF and local community funds in this town and hometowns. That is still being decided. Certainly charity should not be driven by tax time, but the documentation of it is required. Not a strong suit here so under reporting is a tradition as no problems are wanted.
Just a holiday note from here of little consequence...
Cards have arrived, more than last year. Fortunately the card sending tradition here cannot stop, and almost everyone has been covered. Still, each day's mail can arrive with a surprise or a news update.
Deciding on tips to those who provide services here is the usual source of angst. Too little, too much, what a waste of mental energy. It is unavoidable and should not be an issue. The goal is to reward well but not ostentatiously. Why should giving be difficult.
It is not that way with charities, but the research needed to decide is daunting. That leads to fallbacks like MSF and local community funds in this town and hometowns. That is still being decided. Certainly charity should not be driven by tax time, but the documentation of it is required. Not a strong suit here so under reporting is a tradition as no problems are wanted.
Just a holiday note from here of little consequence...
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